Jerilyn Hassell Pool and QueerMeals
In 2015, the Mormon church
in Utah enacted a policy that declared children of LGBTQ parents to
be “apostates,” or individuals who have turned against their
faith and are thus exiled (Lang 2017). This policy exacerbated an
already all-too common problem of social isolation and suicide among
the LGBTQ community in Utah, but also served as a call to action for
Jerilyn Hassell Pool, an Oregon native and member of the LDS church
who had relocated to the town of Provo Utah, home of Brigham Young
University, which has been ranked among colleges as the fourth least
welcoming to LGBTQ students in the nation (Brut 2018).
When she realized that
simply leaving the church would not make a positive change for her
community, Pool began QueerMeals, an initiative open to LGBTQ youth,
especially BYU students, who are often at-risk for suicide and
homelessness due to isolation from friends and family. Pool began
with a Christmas event at a local Marriott hotel, but has since run
the project out of her home, citing the lack of tolerant venues in
Provo (Lang 2017).
Utah is a state where
suicide is the leading cause of death for teens, and LGBTQ teens are
five times more likely to commit suicide than heterosexual youth
(Brut). Clearly, ostracization from peers and family, compounded by
the physical and psychological stress of attending a deeply socially
conservative university is a chief cause of this dynamic. Two of
Pool's regulars interviewed in the piece by Brut (available on the
media group's Facebook page, linked below) stress the value of Pool's
initiative as being both a source of good home-cooked meals when
there is nowhere else to go, and as simply having a place for
companionship and free self-expression. Programs like QueerMeals
show that a little bit of companionship when it is most needed may be
life-saving.
Of course, the LDS church
does not hold a monopoly on anti-LGBTQ policies, and Jarilyn Pool's
QueerMeals project may serve as an inspiration and a model for
similar projects anywhere, especially in small towns or historically conservative areas where LGBTQ communities are most
at-risk. For more information that may prompt you to take positive
action to help end social isolation, hunger and suicide especially
among communities of LGBTQ young adults, I encourage you to explore
the links below. In addition to Jerilyn Pool's QueerMeals site,
where you may donate money of any amount to the project, there is TheTrevor Project, which is dedicated to crisis intervention for LGBTQ
youth ages 13-24, there is Provo Pride, which may serve as a model
for supporting LGBTQ communities in small towns, and the It GetsBetter Project, which acts as a
platform for inspiring stories intended to offer comfort for anyone
who is on the frequently rocky journey of coming out to their friends
and loved ones.
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