Jerilyn Hassell Pool and QueerMeals


In 2015, the Mormon church in Utah enacted a policy that declared children of LGBTQ parents to be “apostates,” or individuals who have turned against their faith and are thus exiled (Lang 2017). This policy exacerbated an already all-too common problem of social isolation and suicide among the LGBTQ community in Utah, but also served as a call to action for Jerilyn Hassell Pool, an Oregon native and member of the LDS church who had relocated to the town of Provo Utah, home of Brigham Young University, which has been ranked among colleges as the fourth least welcoming to LGBTQ students in the nation (Brut 2018).

When she realized that simply leaving the church would not make a positive change for her community, Pool began QueerMeals, an initiative open to LGBTQ youth, especially BYU students, who are often at-risk for suicide and homelessness due to isolation from friends and family. Pool began with a Christmas event at a local Marriott hotel, but has since run the project out of her home, citing the lack of tolerant venues in Provo (Lang 2017).

Utah is a state where suicide is the leading cause of death for teens, and LGBTQ teens are five times more likely to commit suicide than heterosexual youth (Brut). Clearly, ostracization from peers and family, compounded by the physical and psychological stress of attending a deeply socially conservative university is a chief cause of this dynamic. Two of Pool's regulars interviewed in the piece by Brut (available on the media group's Facebook page, linked below) stress the value of Pool's initiative as being both a source of good home-cooked meals when there is nowhere else to go, and as simply having a place for companionship and free self-expression. Programs like QueerMeals show that a little bit of companionship when it is most needed may be life-saving.

Of course, the LDS church does not hold a monopoly on anti-LGBTQ policies, and Jarilyn Pool's QueerMeals project may serve as an inspiration and a model for similar projects anywhere, especially in small towns or historically conservative areas where LGBTQ communities are most at-risk. For more information that may prompt you to take positive action to help end social isolation, hunger and suicide especially among communities of LGBTQ young adults, I encourage you to explore the links below. In addition to Jerilyn Pool's QueerMeals site, where you may donate money of any amount to the project, there is TheTrevor Project, which is dedicated to crisis intervention for LGBTQ youth ages 13-24, there is Provo Pride, which may serve as a model for supporting LGBTQ communities in small towns, and the It GetsBetter Project, which acts as a
platform for inspiring stories intended to offer comfort for anyone who is on the frequently rocky journey of coming out to their friends and loved ones.





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